Valentine’s Day: You either love it or hate it.
Set aside the impact on single people for a moment, and let’s look at the couples. The romantic, energetic, and creative individuals love Valentine’s Day. It’s their moment to shine and have a great time. They plan ahead, set reservations, buy (or make) gifts in advance… if they had tails they’d be wagging.
The haters, though, have their metaphorical tails tucked between their legs, and that can be revealing. There are a few reasons to hate Valentine’s Day.
- You’re single (but we’re ignoring that one for now).
- You’re annoyed you’re being forced to be romantic.
- You have no idea how to be romantic.
- You, as a male, are expected to be the romantic one. Who made that rule?
- You don’t want to be romantic. You don’t have the energy, drive or truthfully the love you had for your spouse. The spark is gone. You’ve lost your way.
I have a couple of resources for you to help turn all of that around.
Not naturally romantic? Want that spark back? Cherishing Us by Tom and Debi Walter gives you 365 ways to energize your marriage. And what a great gift for Valentine’s Day! https://www.amazon.com/Cherishing-Us-Marriage-Romantic-Vineyard-ebook/dp/B079RYM76Y/ref=sr_1_1?keywords=cherishing+us&qid=1550068469&s=gateway&sr=8-1
But the other issues – your marriage isn’t what it’s supposed to be or could be, you don’t want to romance your spouse – or your marriage is in trouble, or just struggling, then we have another book for you. Imagine a small investment of $9.97 to put your marriage on a firm foundation.
Steve and Cindy Wright’s 7 Essentials to Grow Your Marriage is a book that helps you focus on what really matters. https://www.amazon.com/7-Essentials-Grow-Your-Marriage/dp/1948824000/ref=sr_1_fkmrnull_3?crid=386JDWNSP8UI&keywords=7+essentials+to+grow+your+marriage&qid=1550070247&s=gateway&sprefix=7+ess%2Caps%2C158&sr=8-3-fkmrnull
I urge you to use your reaction to Valentine’s Day to diagnose your marriage. Just need a nudge and some great ideas (that can revitalize your marriage)? Cherishing Us is your book.
Have bigger issues and need a new way to look at your marriage? 7 Essentials to Grow Your Marriage will make a HUGE difference.
Or double up and get both! You won’t regret it.
Single? We have other books that are great for curling up in front of your fireplace. Check them out on www.prevailpress.com.
Oh, and happy Valentine’s Day!